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Fear
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One of the best ways to discover exactly what is stopping you from achieving
the goals that you have set is to analyze exactly how much you wish
to succeed. By honestly looking at your inner self you will find out
how strong your will power is and how many resources you have to put
into. Unfortunately, for most people this is one of the hardest things
to do.
We believe that it is better to hide our failures and disappointments,
as they are the ones that can cause pain. The psychological connections
go a lot further, but the main idea is that our mind naturally eliminates
all the factors that are potentially harmful to our body. This is how
our most daring dreams and ideals get hidden somewhere deep in our subconscious
mind and we are afraid to bring them out. The idea of succeeding is
often much weaker than the notion of failure, and this fear is keeping
our potential to a lower limit.
The fear of believing in your ideals is a naturally occurring phenomenon,
but it is also greatly amplified by the society in which we grow up.
When turning into adults, teenagers have to abandon the dreams and hopes
they had as children and see the “actual reality” surrounding them.
Society teaches us to follow a set of footsteps and never go stray.
By creating order, this process also limits creativity and passion.
We may become great citizens, but what good will that do if deep inside
we feel like we should want more?
There are a few tricks that may help you get closer to your ideals.
Begin by writing them down. Seeing the words on paper has a strong effect
and you will soon realize if those dreams are worth fighting for. Try
to examine each of your goals through you own eyes. Don’t let the others
around you guide your view – you are trying to reach your goal, not
theirs. Don’t write your list in stone – there’s nothing wrong to erasing
or adding new goals.
Try to envision yourself reaching your ideal. By constructing an image
of success in your conscious mind you will also influence your subconscious
to do the same. Project yourself in the future, with all the skills
that you need to reach that ideal. If you do this often enough you will
reinforce your beliefs and increase the chances of getting where you
wish.
Sometimes it is hard to manage all the issues mentioned above on your
own. Don’t be afraid to ask for help from someone you care about. Share
your feelings with a special person that will support your actions and
always be in your corner. Try to judge if the trust you will invest
in that particular person (parent, brother, wife, best friend etc.)
will not fail. Even if you think you won’t be accepted with your new
ideals – give it a shot.
There is no magical way of achieving success but you can always increase
the chances of reaching your goals with these simple exercises. When
you manage to eliminate, or at least diminish, the fear that is holding
you back, all of your expectations will seem easier to achieve. It is
not easy to take a journey into your own soul, but if you manage to
gather sufficient determination this could prove one of the best trips
you have ever taken.
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