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Improve the
relation with your parents
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It is true that they give us birth and they raise us, but after a while,
who hasn’t gone through a period when they felt their parents kept messing
up things? Even though your thirty you mom still calls to see what you’ve
eaten, to tell you it’s cold outside and you should put an extra coat
or to remind you to close all the windows before going on vacation.
Little by little, all the extra care they show towards us gets to annoy
us tremendously. At the beginning, we try to keep it to ourselves, so
that we don’t bother anybody, then, we try to avoid visits and telephone
calls, just to make sure we won’t start a scandal. Nevertheless, the
more we try to stay away from any uncomfortable talks, the pushier our
parents get.
The question arising is how to find equilibrium? How to escape the daily
phone calls, which provide you with unnecessary advice, without making
your parents feel bad, rejected or misunderstood.
Depending, obviously, on the parents, there are a few strategies that
you can try. For example, if you know your mother is going to call you
at 8 am sharp, in order to tell you what the weather is like outside
and what you should wear that day, ring her up five minutes earlier
than she would normally call. Act natural, like you didn’t plan in detail
the call. Ask her how she slept, how the dog is and inform her on the
weather. Tell her you just watched the weather forecast ten minutes
ago and she should definitely wear warm clothes, in case she goes shopping.
First, she’ll have the impression she forgot to call at the regular
hour and inform you about the weather, but then she will start thinking
that you follow her advice and you check the forecast before leaving
for work.
We always have to remember that, although we grew up, our parents keep
on seeing in us children in need to receive help and advice. That is
why, they constantly try to be present in our lives and protect us,
in the way they consider best.
But, in spite of all the good intentions, an over caring parent can
be a problem to anybody. So what do we do when the only hobby our parents
have, is to go on taking care of the poor 30 years old child, meaning
your own person? If no method, like proving we are capable of handling
things by our own, works, than you definitely have to start finding
another hobby for your parents. It might take a while, but you can’t
give up! Keep our mind open and think about options like: getting them
another pet; subscribe them to dancing club which organizes daily meetings
– this way they’ll be busy, healthy and also tired and they might give
you a break; call their friends and invite them to pay them visits more
often etc.
You’ll see that reaching the purpose is much easier than you expect,
but be sure that, after a while, you will accept those phone calls,
so don’t make the mistake to totally break the relations with your parents!
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