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Where can
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Many times in your life you felt lonely and, sadder than that, you felt
there was nobody you could turn to, in order to ask for help. Being
uncomfortable when you’re alone is a natural reaction, because human
beings are creatures that need social contact, just as much as they
need to breath. In other words, like it not, we need friends!
But what should you do if you realize one afternoon that you want to
leave office earlier, which you haven’t done in seven years since you
got hired, but there is nobody in your agenda that you can call and
invite to join you for a cup of coffee, precisely because you practically
never stopped working for the last years?
There are no such things as true friends for rent, or if there are,
they are called shrinks and you have to get an appointment, so how can
you manage to find or to make a new friend, especially in those horrible
moments, when you feel you’ll do anything not to be alone anymore?
It is indeed correct that a true friendship means time investment, and,
in the case of adults, it takes even more time to establish an honest
connection with a new person. But what about those times in your life
when work did not occupy 90% of your time? Everybody had friends during
childhood. Experts show that those bonds established during our infancy
are the strongest and, as a result, why trying to build something from
the ground, when there is something already built that only needs renovation?
That is why, specialists strongly advice you to reestablish connection
with your old friends. The first step you should take, before dialing
their number, is to invest some time and meditate on what led to this
apparent lost of contact? If it was something you did wrong, don’t be
afraid to admit it. Imagine that somebody comes to you after several
years, begging pardon for something he or she did wrong. Wouldn’t you
accept that person’s apologies? Of course you did and the same will
do the friends you plan to contact.
When talking to them express you sincere feelings and don’t be afraid
to ask for moral support or spiritual counseling, if you need it. Put
yourself in their position, and you’ll realize they surely cannot deny
your request. But don’t take advantage of them! Friendship is also about
giving back, so always be ready to help the ones that helped you once.
If you discover you had no friends in your early years, turn your feelings
towards your family, because between the relatives there is a connection
that nobody can break.
But what if you decide that you got nothing in your past or in family
that could make you feel you have a support? What if you never found
a true good friend? Than, no matter how old you are, it’s high time
you looked for one! Pay attention to the people you know and especially
to the new people you meet. Invite them out, but be careful not to become
too aggressive. When people insist too much, we always tend to be more
suspicious. That is why, you have be patient, as a friendship takes
time to build.
Nevertheless, never stop looking for new friends! Follow your intuition
and maybe you’ll get to be the friend of somebody who is in the same
situation as you are – seeking true friendship!
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